Stories

New Job

One of the hardest parts in our society is being forced to come out over and over again. Every time you start a new job there is always that lingering thought: “when and at what point do I comment or come out on my sexuality”. The work place can be a rough area for anyone of any age to come out in.

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Try Yoga

I was looking for an activity that would calm my mind but also work my body.

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Success with online dating

I offer the following advice to gay men looking for friends: sign up for an on-line dating service. Of the several out there that cater to gay men, I believe Match.com is the best…

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Getting involved in groups

We worry about ourselves a lot when we are either coming out or managing a health issue. Sometimes it benefits us and others more if we could help get involved in an outside group…

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Serosorting

Serosorting: not a term I became familiar with until recently. It is defined as the process by which a person makes choices about sex partners based on HIV status…

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Coming out to a big family

I came out to my family when back in the mid-1990’s when I was 32 and after I got my heart broken after a long-distance relationship that wasn’t going to work out. I come from a big family and I decided to tell just one of my sisters first…

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